Men and there ways

I have a question. Why do man feel they can do whatever they want in a relationship but if the shoes on the other foot it doesn't seem to work that way what with that! Men and Women are supposed to be equal in a relationship as well as on this earth so why doesn't that seem to happen? I often find myself asking that question just because you have a penis you rule the roost. Well sorry I don't agree I believe you need to especially in a relationship be up front and honest with one another to have a happy and healty relationship for example I have a friend who works a werid shift some days she works nights and some are days and her boyfriend feels while she is at work he is allowed to do whatever he wants and when she asks him what he did he always says NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS what's with that but we decide to go out and he wants to know the whole where u going what ya doing how long will you be question seriously I think man need to stop being such jerks and start be more fair in there realtionships well I guess I am done rambling for the day bye for now.